I had a miscarriage a few months ago. While people expressed sympathy when it happened, no one wants to talk about it any more. But I still mourn the loss of that baby. I want to say I have 3 children, not only the two who are alive. People just don’t understand.

I cannot imagine how hard this is for you. Absolutely you have three children. I encourage you to search online for support groups for miscarriage support groups. They meet online and there may be an in-person group in your area. A supportive community is so important for any grief, especially the ‘disenfranchised’ ones.